What Your Boyfriend Actually Wants, But Will Never Ask For

Published in Odd and Fun on 22nd October 2017
What Your Boyfriend Actually Wants, But Will Never Ask For

He wants to be someone youre proud of. He wants you to bragging to your friends about him, gush to your parents about him, take the numerous painstaking images that result in simply one you can post, because he wants the world to know that hes with you. He wants you to slip your hand inside of his while youre walking down the street, as a simple, territorial claim. He wants to be the guy who you openly cant get enough of, because he cannot get enough of you.

He wants you to take him at his term. He wants you to know that I love you today entails I love you tomorrow and Ill love you the day after that, even if he doesnt always say it aloud. He wants you to know that the route he feels about you isnt impacted by the tiny aggravations and the petty arguments and either of your foul moods on the bad days. He wants you to know that his affection and admiration for you are pervasive and you shouldnt have to question that ever.

He wants you to act like hes the very first guy. Not the first guy youve been with or loved you have a past and he respects you for that. Its part of what constructs you yourself. But he wants to feel like he is the first guy youve ever looked at in the specific way you look at him. Like hes the first one whos ever lit your world on fire. Like hes the first guy youve ever seen a future with in the exact way you insure a future with him, because youre the first daughter hes ever felt like this about. The way feels to be with you is brand new to him, although he has had other girlfriends, and he hopes that its new to you too.

You are what he wants to expend his fund and time and his attempt on. He wants to whisk you away on vacation, to take you out to a nice dinner, to watch your face explode into a grin when he comes home with a astonish that you were never expecting. He wants to be the thing that illuminates up your world because you’re the thing that lights up his.

He wants you to know hes not infallible. He doesnt want to tell you that hes not always brave or decisive or sure, but he wants you to quietly know. To pick up on the moments when his face falls or his voice quiverings or he heads straight to the den when he gets home. He wants you to understand that sometimes hes avoiding you not because hes upset at you but because he is very disappointed in himself for not being strong enough and capable enough and successful enough to provide you with all you deserve. He wants to be your hero but he wants you to know that he wont be able to be that 100% of the time. And he wants that to be okay. He wants you to know that its never going to stop him from trying.

He wants you to be patient with him. Your determination and your certainty and your confidence in the arena of love are what he adores about you most and yet sometimes he needs to take it slacken. He wants you to know that to him, love kinds quietly in the moments when you chuckle unexpectedly, on the mornings when your smile brightens the room, in the moments when youre falling asleep and your breath steadies out and slows down and he knows that you feel safe inside his arms. He needs you to know that relationships arent something he dives into headfirst because he wants it all to matter in a real style. He wants to build something thats going to last with you. He wants you to know that you shouldn’t worry about where the two of you stand because if he can swing it right, you’ll have the rest of their own lives to keep on falling in love with each other.

And he wants you to trust him on it all. Because what he’s actually most afraid to tell you is that even this early in the game, he already knows that he doesn’t plan on letting you go.

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