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15 Hard Life Lessons People Who Are Happiest In Their 30 s Learned In Their 20 s

Published in Odd and Fun on 16th January 2018

1. They learn to differentiate love and compatibility. They are separate, but both are necessary for a relationship to work. Without compatibility, love can’t prosper. Without love, compatibility is only friendship. 2. They develop discipline so they don’t confuse” not feeling like it” for being” incapable of it .” Everyone is affected by bouts of […]

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We Are The Generation That Lives In Contradiction

Published in Odd and Fun on 11th January 2018

We desire to be loved but were not willing to give that kind of love to anyone. We do everything to alienate the ones we love because weve been told that presenting love is weakness, that vulnerability is uncooland that rejection means that theres something wrong with us. Yet we keep on looking for real […]

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The Brutal Truth About Getting’ Closure’ With An Ex

Published in Odd and Fun on 10th January 2018

I don’t believe in ever having final’ closure ‘, especially with someone who you have truly grown to love and adore. There’s such thing as goodbyes. There’s such thing as a clean break. But I don’t think anyone can get quite what they need out of’ closure ‘. An ex told me once all he […]

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I Need You To Find Who I Really Am, And Love Me Anyway

Published in Odd and Fun on 8th January 2018

I dont always like who I am, and I need you to know that. Sometimes, I read too much into a harmless commentary, I fixate on an interaction thats truly no big deal, or I say something unnecessarily childish. I do things I regularly admonish others forthings I dismiss as silly or ill thought out, […]

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Stop Choosing Him Over The Rest Of The World

Published in Odd and Fun on 7th January 2018

Darling, I know you think he’s your world, but there’s a whole cosmo out here that doesn’t involve him. You are living in a perfect loving bubble, but it’s too small for your dreamings. It’s too small for your heart, too. It’s just not enough for someone like you. You like the adrenaline hurry-up whenever […]

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Keep Focusing On Your Career, The Relationship Will Follow

Published in Odd and Fun on 6th January 2018

Stay the course. Its sexy to see a girl chase her dreams. I get it I know youre approaching thirty (or forty) and worried about getting married, having a family and the whole shebang. And if Im being totally honest, you have a legitimate reason to be concerned. After all, from a medical standpoint, its […]

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50 Revealing Topics That Will Make Your Friends Regret Picking’ Truth’ Over’ Dare’

Published in Odd and Fun on 5th January 2018

1. Whats the dirtiest thought youve ever had? 2. Of the person or persons in this room, who do you most want to make out with? 3. Whats the first thing youd do if you woke up one day and you were the opposite sexuality? 4. What sexual activity do you consider totally off limits? […]

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You’re Not Really A Couple Until You Survive These 23 Awkward Moments In Bed

Published in Odd and Fun on 4th January 2018

1. When youre in the middle of talking dirty but one person gets totally flustered and tongue tied and says something totally nonsensical and/ or utterly unsexy. 2. When youre wasted and intent on having sex but youre both so sloppy that its a total mess. 3. When your flesh slaps together in such a […]

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11 Signs Your Dog Is The Reason You’re Still Single

Published in Odd and Fun on 31st December 2017

1. You leave dates early because you need to let him/ her out. But really you merely want to go home totheir adorable face that’s eternally happy to see you. 2. You won’t sleep over someone’s place because you can’t bear to let your puppy sleep alone. You’d rather let that cute guy sleep alone […]

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The Honest Difference Between Love And Codependency

Published in Odd and Fun on 28th December 2017

Love. We all want it. We all crave it. It’s the kind of thing that we don’t know how to define, but all that we know is that it’s one of the most wonderful things that could ever happen to us. Unfortunately, there is a blurry line where lovecan develop from something that is beautiful, […]

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