10 Things Women Do That Basically Repel Men

Published in Odd and Fun on 10th December 2017
10 Things Women Do That Basically Repel Men

The one thing Ive noticed over the years as a relationship writer is that most women have no notion how theyre coming across to humen. They may do things in an attempt to win his affection and then are left altogether amazed when their efforts make the opposite result.

My main source of information for the articles I write is men themselves. Over the years, Ive noticed a few recurring themes when it is necessary to things women do that totally turn guys off.

Here are the top ten ways to repulse a guy 😛 TAGEND

1. Bragging/ being arrogant.

Confidence is a major turn on. Arrogance is not. People are inherently repelled by braggers. Im sure your efforts are coming from a desire to impress him, but too much showing off will actually repulsed him. Also, asserting your all-mightiness will attain him feel like youre the type of person who will always need to get her route and will never admit to being wrong and no guy wants to deal with that.

2. Being negative.

Having a negative outlook isnt just a man-repeller, its a people repeller. We all have our own crap to deal with on a daily basis and the last thing anyone requires is to get weighed down by someone elses issues and negativity.

3. You dont get him.

Most men simply want to be seen and understood. When a man feels this from a woman, hell want to be around her more. Conversely, when he senses she requires him, or is just trying to get something out of him in order to fulfill her own desire, he will instinctively pull away.

4. Being critical or putting him down.

No one likes to be criticized but men are particularly sensitive in this area, the male ego is not something to be messed with. A mans greatest require is to feel significant and to feel like a win in the world. If you stimulate him feel like a loser, he wont want to be anywhere near you.

5. Youre fixated on labels or a relationship status.

Men like to be in the moment and they dont want to feel like theyre in a relationship pressure cooker where they have to meet deadlines and reached certain marks at the right time or the girl will get upset. Your focus should be on connecting with the other person and determining if this relationship is the right fit , not on getting the title to the purposes of having it.

6. Being manipulative.

A guy can sense when hes begin manipulated and hell resent it. Dont do things to intentionally elicits him and get a certain reaction or replies from him, this is just immature. Healthy relationships are built on open, honest communication.

7. Youre unhappy.

The sexiest woman to a guy is a happy girl. If you detest their own lives, your friends, yourself, hell be repelled. Guys like to keep their lives easy and drama-free.

8. Youre unpleasant to be around.

If a guy is like hanging out with you is something hes going to have to deal with as opposed to something he enjoys, he wont want to do it anymore. A lot of women construct the mistake of turning their relationship into a dumping ground where they can unload all their issues. While its penalty to vent to your guy on occasion, if youre constantly going to him to complain about everything in your life then being with you will become a burden.

9. Being cruel/ mean to others.

In movies, girls like Regina George are capable of snagging the most wonderful guy around. In real life, there is nothing sexy about a mean daughter, in fact, its unbelievably off putting. Mean people are generally unhappy people( as they say, sadnes loves company ). Being mean also reeks of insecurity and emotional issues, two things that no human wants to deal with.

10. Youre combative.

Its fine to have sentiments and assert yourself as long as you can also watch things from the other persons perspective and dont need to be right just for the sake of being right. A plenty of status of women go into relationships assuring their guy as an opponent instead of a partner. The need to fight with him can have a variety of root causes and youre best bet is to identify it and find out what youre truly fighting for.

This post originally appeared at A New Mode .

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